Religion and Homeschooling

Let me start by saying, I am not home schooling for religious reasons. Well, unless it's considered religious for me to thank god every day that I don't have to shop for school uniforms and back packs anymore.

My kids attend an enrichment program on Fridays. It is a Christian based program. Several of our friends attend there so it was a natural choice for us when we added that into our plan. On our first day there, I was told that I had to remove my nose ring. It was a chip really and not a ring but a facial piercing none the less. I also had to cover my tattoos. I have 3 of them. All beautiful pieces of artwork that reflect part of my soul. I agreed to the two conditions anyway.

We go through 2 semesters at this program. We loved it. The kids made friends. Now, we are faced with the end of our year. I contemplated applying to teach a class next year. A volunteer spot. Computers and web design. I look over the application to find question #3 asking about my church and question #4 asking what my feelings were about Jesus Christ.

I am not an atheist. I am not part of some satanic cult. I am spiritual and most of all, I am respectful. I do not offer up arguments about religion, I sit quietly while others preach, no matter where I am and I still bow my head when people around me pray. I am the picture perfect non religious person. You know, aside from the facial piercing and the ink. They won't allow me to teach a class because I am not what they consider a Christian. Their words, not mine.

All I want to do, is offer a class in web design for some kiddos. Nope. You aren't good enough to teach here, Queenie. I would be aok if they were judging me on my ability rather than my religious beliefs. I am good enough for them to take my hundreds of dollars each month but not good enough to volunteer to teach. Doesn't the bible tell people not to judge? Yet here I am, being judged.

I just don't get it.

4 comments:

Libertine said...

If it had been me, I'd have hit the door when they asked for you to remove your nose ring and cover your tattoos.

I've never understood why one must be conservative to be a Christian, anyway, when Jesus shook up all the traditions of his society.

I'm an agnostic and I have long hair and I get grief about my hair from some of these "Christians". Never does it cross their minds that the men during Jesus' time, including Jesus himself, had long hair.

It seems as if their refusal to hire you is more their loss than yours.

Thanks for visiting my blog and feel free to stop by any time.

Queenie said...

I thought about it. I really did. I guess the problem lies in the fact that there are very few non religious programs out there for home schoolers. At least near me.

Some friends and I are working on starting our own program for this coming year so no one will have to conform.

Thanks for the visit Lib. :)

Melissa~ said...

Hi, don't know how I got here, you know how random surfing is, but wanted to say how pretty your blog is!

And this post made me sad. I somehow feel the need to apologize for every person who calls themselves a Christian and then does stuff like that. sorry.

It seems like a lot of times people are more worried about outsides than insides which Jesus actually warned us about.

He told the religious people of His day that they were all "whitewashed" and clean on the outside but rotten on the inside. ouch.

I don't really know why they wouldn't let you teach the class, but based on your lovely blog here I would love my kiddos to take a web design class from you.

And I love Jesus.

So we're not all you know...judgmental and short-sighted.

Just thought you should know that. :)

Have a great weekend.

Melissa~
Pink Paper Peppermints

Amy said...

I just found your amazing blog, as I am facing the same dilemma. My son turns 3 this year and we plan to homeschool.

We are moving to a small town with *one* homeschooling group - a Christian-based one. Will I face the same prejudice? I'm afraid I might.

Like you, I'm a congenial agnostic and I probably have the same family values as this Christian group... minus the superstition. ;)

Oh, and I also have several tattoos, so I'll be sure to keep 'em covered if I meet these people.

(BTW - Does anyone here know the secret Christian handshake?!)

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Raising 3 beautiful geeks in the 21st century isn't an easy task. Doing the above all while trying to maintain your title of "Coolest mom on the planet" is even more difficult. This blog is home to my mommy madness as I try to home school my kids into adult hood.